There is an old (and unresolved) debate among historians that the game of Chess was invented as a way for a King to teach his Generals battlefield tactics.
The King found that the younger headstrong Generals would attack quickly without much of a strategy or consideration for the survivability of his armies. Their idea was that brute force was always the best way.
The older, more experienced Generals would exercise patience, lie in wait for an opponent to expose his jugular, and crush him with a series of well executed counter offensives.
As the younger Generals found out, sometimes the hardest decision to make was the decision not to act, or at least, not to act on their basic impulses. In other words, the best thing for them to do was to be patient, wait for a more favorable opportunity to present itself, and only then should you pounce.
Being a guy in my lower 30s, I’m beginning to see the wisdom in this all encompassing life lesson. No longer do I charge into something without carefully considering the collateral damage, the time invested in the project, or that I might get a better payoff (lower cost, less work, or both) if I just exercise a little more patience.
Longtime frugal living advocates probably know this better than I, but here are a few ideas of how I’ve applied the lessons learned from exercising more patience when it comes to my personal finances.
Got any situations where patience benefited your wallet?
Yeah I’ve played against guys that use that technique. It’s not really a tactic to win, but to tie or annoy.
I think you may be onto something with the tech gadget giveaways. I’ve probably seen half a dozen blogs giving away iPhones without even searching for them. May be a good idea for a future frugality blog!
Huh? I was referring to positions in which whomever moves losses. It happens a lot in endgames and it ends up being the path to victory!
Mine were all for school based raffles (better odds I think). A while back:
http://www.sweepsadvantage.com/
I temporarily toyed with the idea of signing up for random raffles haha… I will say that signing up for random walmart free samples are semi-entertaining…
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First, kind of off topic, there’s also the idea of zugzwang in chess when it’s actually advantageous not to move. (sadly turn-based combat forces you to move)
I mean, just delaying buying stuff can cause you to re-evaluate your needs/desires and realize it was gonna be a stupid purchase, i.e. preventing buyers remorse.
Getting lucky also works… I never purchased an mp3 player, but have won 2 in raffles and gotten 2 or so as gifts =)
Friends might take a hint for bdays/graduations/etc =D